In order to receive love, you must first learn to give love. In my latest story I’ll tell you about the importance of sowing love to receive care, tenderness and understanding, compassion and respect. Those who understand and follow this will unlock a life filled with love, positivity, and passion.
So, tell me. Which of you, my beloved followers have thought about the meaning of life? Why do we live? And what is the meaning of life? These are big questions I know, and they can conjure up a lot of deep and meaningful thoughts.
For example. Do we live to earn lots of money? Do we live for glory and success? Perhaps we live for family and our sons? Or maybe your focus is on travel, a successful career, or a healthy relationship with an uplifting sex life? Or do we live to serve God and the people? There are no right or wrong answers here. They are all interesting and provocative questions to ask ourselves.
However, one thing all the above have in common is that they are just one way. The question I will help you answer and understand is what the real meaning of life is and who is the God in which we all believe. Quite simply, this is about love. We all have one thing in common. That is that we live for love. To love and to be loved. There is nothing more precious in this world and we should always hold this dear to our hearts.
The love we give and receive should be altruistic. Remember, God himself is the embodiment of love and we are his creations, his masterpieces and finest works of art. Each of us are one of his pictures and a creation of love of our great creator. Throughout our beautiful lives we should always seek to convey the emotions of our great creator. God said, I am love. So, ask yourself, what can be higher than love. Exactly, nothing. I adore this and use it in all my manifestations. I find it love in everything and everyone and I adore giving and receiving this love. The more I give, the more it returns. It’s self-fulfilling. And remember, without sowing love, you cannot receive love, care, tenderness and understanding, compassion and respect.
There are several types of love: Love for family, love for frinds and love for Phileo or Philia, this is passionate, romantic love Eros: This is the kind of love that gives us goosebumps and makes us lose our minds. This is Eros love, and the purest and brightest kind of love is Agape Love. God’s love altruistic love. This is the love that wants to give without expecting anything in return; this is the love that never stops, regardless of what, from whatever factors and circumstances exist; this is God’s love, Agape.
Remember the proverb that says, “If the grain planted in the ground does not die, then it will remain as one. Each of us, you, and I.” If you want to reap the rewards of something, you must sow the seed into the land. It’s simple, if you want potatoes then first you must plant the potato seed but here after you need to care for that seed. You must provide for them, water them, care for them and nurture them. In providing this love and care you will be rewarded with the healthy crop you dreamed of. But don’t forget, you only get back what you put in. This is the same with the seed as it is with love. If you want a tomato, you must plant to the tomato seed. If you want a watermelon, you must plant the correct seed. This is the meaning of you get back what you put in.
Our relationships are the same as this metaphor. Our relationships are the same as the relationship between the seed and the soil. They take care and require love and lasting attention. We must care for our relationships to help them grow in the same way we would fertilise the soil to help the seed. If your life is built around characteristics of anger, discontent and you treat your peers and subordinates with disdain then you cannot, nor should not expect to reap the benefits from these relationships.
This is something I cannot stress to my lovely readers enough. Remember, what you send it to the universe is what you will get back. Think of it like a boomerang. What you give, is what you get back. So, whether it’s with your friend, your boss or your girlfriend you must always show love, care and attention and take time to nurture those relationships to ensure you fulfil the full potential of your life.
Remember, evil is the centre of distrust and negativity. You will reap benefits not from those people in whom you sowed, but from those people higher than you. Think of your boss or of the people who collect the waste and help service your life. So, always remember, the dream and what you give out, always comes back. Good and bad will always bear fruit.
But simply this all comes back to the act of love. The love you give, will always come back.
Ok, so let me tell you have this wisdom has manifested itself in my life. Let me tell you about one of my clients. He’s a regular. He comes back time and time again and has been a frequent visitor to my salon for several years. Over time, this relationship began to grow and before long he started to visit me at my house. But this was more than someone who just wanted to experience my sensual massage techniques. This was more than someone who wanted to experience my magical hands running over his body. As well as being an expert physio and massage therapist I pride myself on my ability to listen. My ability to also acts as a psychologist. I can listen to my clients’ stories, and their lives for hour upon hour. I can listen to their struggles; I can listen to the dilemmas they face and offer advice this ensure they can see clearly and offer a path forward.
After each of our magical sessions, where my client was often lying breathless in ecstasy, he would always share the same thing. He always had the same, repeat complaint. Issues with his boss, challenges with his wife. He was easily irritated and would get angry with those around him. He was sending out negative waves into the universe but was expecting love, care and attention and compassion back. Here I reminded him of our wonderful proverb. Remember, you only reap the rewards of what you sow I told him. So, here I offered him something magical. Something to help him learn this lesson and transform his life. I offered him something far deeper than the touch of my hands and the warmth of my body. I offered him an act of love.
I handed him a simple stone. Here, I embraced him and held his hands in the warmth of mine. I said, take it. This is your stone of gratitude. Every day, take this stone with you I told him and start thanking the universe for all the good. Each and every day I want you to take a moment to show your love and kindness and thanks to the world. I could see the reaction from him. It took a moment for this to sink in. But with the warmth of my touch and the kind loving look of my eyes staring back into his I could feel this love taking hold of him. I could feel the anger and frustration in his body start to dissipate as he let himself over to my magical touch and empowering words of wisdom.
I told him. Stop those divorce proceedings. Make peace with your boss. Learn to apologise and show love and kindness to those around you. I know this wasn’t easy for him. It was a change. A change in his mindset and his approach. But after a year, he opened. He told me of the transformative impact my psycho-hypnosis had had. This little change had had a big impact on his life. All those nights of listening, of showing my love and compassion had rehabilitated him. I had filled his life with love and affection, and he was doing exactly what I hoped. He was taking this forth and making it part of his own life and sharing it with those around him.
Soon, his situation had changed. His work life was balanced and clam. His home life was filled with love, care and affection. And his once stagnant loveless relationship transformed into one filled with love, passion and desire. The tenderness that my client had shown. This ability to let in love and open up his mind was reaping benefits he could not believe. His life ambition became fulfilled. We have a Ukrainian proverb which I always recall, “The purpose of life for every man is the same. No matter, race, nationality, skin colour, language, or appearance the purpose is to : “Give birth to a son , plant a tree and build a house.”
So have a think. Which of these have you already achieved? Have you already completed all of this? Ask yourself if you’re truly happy and content? If the answer to both these questions is a resounding yes, then you can take comfort in your life and the path you have found. However, if you don’t see yourself in this yet. Please, do not worry. Take time to read my words. Read them once, read them twice and let them sink into your heart and mind. Together me and you , we can fix you. I will help you bring the fire of love, the passion of affection and the tenderness of kindness. Before long you to will be transforming your life. You will be lifted, be happier and you can grow. Let love into your life and let your life be transformed and I will help you.
